Archive for May, 2019

221 – It is hard to look out the window …

Wednesday, May 15th, 2019

It is hard to look out the window, and see hummingbirds, begonias, bees, ferns, us, all in danger of disappearing

because of what we do.

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220 – The Power of the Human Mind (Part II) …

Wednesday, May 1st, 2019

On post 218, I wrote about the power of the human mind to lead us astray into behaviors like intolerance, hate, contempt; while the mind also has the power to lead us into altruism, love, creativity, happiness. Both inclinations – one that makes us captive to the whims of others, the other that sets us free – are latent in us.

Unfortunately, although hate, intolerance, contempt, are not inherent in us, they are incited in our most vulnerable and impressionable years to oftentimes become dominant aspects of our personality; and Happiness, which is inherent in us, has come to be measured by the possessions and accomplishments of others.

But true happiness is not found outside of us. It is not found in the accumulation of material possessions, nor in seeking control over others by emulating the same behaviors that led us astray. These behaviors may give us a temporary thrill, but they are not true happiness.

Happiness is a subjective yet physical emotion; subjective in the sense that it is in the mind of the beholder, and physical because it affects and is affected by the body. Happiness is universally based on a sense of security, of acceptance, of having the freedom to pursue what we believe makes us happy; Happiness is, at the most physical/organic level, driven by a craving for Pleasure – the engine of Evolution – the innate need, even if it is for an instant of time, to experience something intensely gratifying yet rife with mystery; something so ephemeral that, try as we might to hold on to it, vanishes, irretrievably, leaving us bewildered and wanting. And thus Happiness is unique to each one of us because it depends on culture, belief, upbringing, age, imagination, feelings.

True happiness, if it is to be found, it is found not outside of us, but within.


I grew up in the midst of oppression, hate, cruelty, deceit, rape. All I knew was the loneliness of paralyzing fear. But somehow, in the wisdom of books and of two loving souls, I found the force to see that, if I was to find true happiness, it would not be by doing to others what was done to me.

It would be by looking for a setting where there was love, understanding, security, adventure, encouragement, and a bit of fun and enough space and peace to allow my mind to wonder about the things I love and want to understand;

It would be by knowing, intimately, the roar, the touch, the feel, the vision, the tenacity, of the creative force we call Life that, coming alive in me, knew how to organize and give shape to my body, and infuse it with a mind;

it would be by knowing, seeing, feeling, touching, the progression of the force of Life inside of me that, over eons of time, trial upon trial, generation to generation, wisely learned to take over the gestation of my body until my mind, slowly, woke up eager to be set free.

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